hardest thing to learn during recovery is….. some of your misery is your own fault. you have to actively choose to stop wallowing in your own pain & start to recover. that means stop being self deprecating, start taking care of yourself, start eating healthy, start taking your hygiene seriously, even if it’s hard. & it is hard! but you must.
It’s okay if your trauma made you sex repulsed.
But there’s another outcome that isn’t talked about as often.
It’s also okay if your trauma has made you hypersexual.
Everyone is different, and there’s no set rule book for how you should be after a trauma.


